How can I get rid of my distrust and dislike of males, my own gender?

-By understanding that YOU- are not "One of a Kind" in the way You feel... And that you Will need to trust yourSELF More, before you can finally open up to Other guys like yourself. At 14, you still have PLENTY of Time for this to come about... So just relax & and let things happen -of their own accord. Invariably, -they ALWAYS Do... :)